To Encourage Repentance
You Must Be
Intellectually Clear
And
Emotionally Disarming
I recently made the comment that America needs to repent.
It was a very familiar setting. I and several family members were sitting around the dinner table enjoying a shared meal and the conversation gravitated toward philosophical ideas and that’s when I made my comment.
I don’t remember the entire conversation leading up to my comment but, no, we weren’t discussing any specific political issues or personalities. We’ve had those discussions but find it best these days to stick to peripheral ideas. It creates less friction, and that’s where we were at that moment.
And, instead of challenging my comment, one person at the table asked, “What do we need to repent of?”
It was a fair question, asked in the spirit of genuine enquiry.
My comment, of course, wasn’t original. Others have made similar remarks, but the reasons one person believes we need to repent don’t always agree with another’s.
In fact, when someone makes that remark, what they usually mean is America needs to think like me.
So, again, it’s a fair question.
It’s also true that what is meant by repentance, how it’s defined and how it works, can vary widely from one person to another so the question got my gears turning.
Repentance Is Not Coercion
We usually think of repentance as changing our ways, getting rid of bad traits. We repent of things like smoking or drugs or foul language or lying or stealing or drunkenness or any one of a number of other bad habits. It’s usually a corrective response to something you do addictively, and those who wish others to repent make statements that are aimed directly at those habits and are designed to shame more than enlighten.
Why do you talk like that? Why do you eat so much? Why don’t you wear something different? How can that music be good for you?
That’s not a great strategy, but we want people to repent so badly that we resort to anything we think might do the trick, even shaming. [Read more…] about Everyone Needs Repentance, Even Christians





