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This Week In Divorce – Celebrity Breakups

September 22, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

With celebrity, air is rarefied but never airs.

Celebrity Marriage
Is A Minefield

It isn’t uncommon for the public to think celebrities hold the highest spot on the divorce-rate list but according to a Radford University study the idea is just a myth.

The study’s findings were based on the 2000 census and isolated rates of divorce by occupation, listing 449 different jobs.

Surprisingly, dancers and choreographers were first on the list with just over 43% divorce rate. Second and third on the list were bartenders and massage therapists. Casino workers, telephone operators, nurses and home health aides were also in the top ten. Celebrities didn’t even get an honorable mention.

So why do we think they’re the worst?

Maybe we should blame the media. They give celebrities a lot of attention, especially when things like divorce are happening, and that does influence perception. Whatever the case, now that we know celebrity breakups don’t happen as frequently as we thought, we should look more closely and find out what makes these unions tick.

Let’s face it, celebrity marriages are strange and that isn’t just another overstated media induced perception. It’s also not a judgment. No condemnation intended.

There are several reasons why these unions are more like minefields than normal marriage and since common folks – the ones with normal marriages – have a difficult time getting marriage right we shouldn’t be surprised or overly critical when celebrity marriages wobble.

If we can turn off the judgment for a little while, we might learn something from their experience that can help the rest avoid marriage-divorce mishaps. We might even learn to be a bit more forgiving. [Read more…] about This Week In Divorce – Celebrity Breakups

Filed Under: Divorce, Family, Marriage

This Week In Divorce – India Still Requires Fault

September 8, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

Declaring fault is malicious even if it isn't slander.

Incompatibility
Does Not Suggest
Fault

The Hindu reported that Politician Omar Abdullah’s divorce plea from his estranged wife, Payal Abdullah, was denied in court on 30 August 2016.

The circumstances behind the plea and the courts response were interesting.

Omar’s claims paint an ugly picture:

  • Married 1 September 1994
  • Conjugal relations ceased after 2007
  • Lived separately since 2009
  • Accused wife of cruelty, desertion and unreasonable conduct

The couple has two sons living with the mother.

The judge ruled that Omar had failed to prove irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.

I’m neither a judge nor a lawyer but this ruling raises several questions about the wisdom of requiring fault in the case of divorce: [Read more…] about This Week In Divorce – India Still Requires Fault

Filed Under: Divorce, Family, Marriage

Continuous Change Is The Key To Continuous Success

September 1, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

The New Testament teaches innovation by modeling innovation.

Innovation And
Immunity
Have A Lot
In Common

We normally think of success as being static. That is, once we achieve it, we can relax. Climb the mountain and then boast. We’re set for life.

Recent history tells a different story, though. Fortune 500 companies today may very well be failures tomorrow, especially in today’s shape-shifting market place, suggesting that success needs to be revisited and renewed regularly.

Several Ted Talk specialists share examples of these failures, and successes, and ideas on why it happens and how to avoid one and insure the other. [Read more…] about Continuous Change Is The Key To Continuous Success

Filed Under: Change, Personal Development

5 Truths About The Changes God Makes

August 30, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

Change is just as certain as death and taxes.

Every One Changes
Every Day

Change is what we do. It can’t be avoided. The problem is we don’t always change in the best ways or the right direction.

Sometimes abilities lay dormant. We don’t make the effort to develop them.

Sometimes abilities diminish. We develop them and then don’t use them.

Sometimes we take on bad habits or waste energy attempting to be things we can’t or shouldn’t. Not wrong things but things outside the limitations of our talent set.

Sometimes and worst of all – but strangely acceptable to most – we plateau. We reach above-average, rest on our laurels and stop forging ahead.

The Bible gives us many reasons to see Change differently. [Read more…] about 5 Truths About The Changes God Makes

Filed Under: How To, Personal Development, Philosophy

What Does Be-There Really Mean?

August 19, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

Being there is somewhere between watching from a distance  and in your face.

Don’t Be Unaware
Be There

The time to be-there is usually the most uncomfortable, most dangerous, most inconvenient time to be present. It can be expensive too.

It’s easier to watch from a distance. If you consider yourself a real friend, though, don’t stare . . . be there. The rule is simple:

You can’t listen if you’re not in audible range.

You can’t express compassion without showing your face.

You can’t hold a hand or dry a tear unless you’re within arms reach.

You can’t change the atmosphere unless you’re in it.

But do be careful. In-your-face is a little too close at any time.

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