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Solitude, Silence, Contemplation? Please!

February 23, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

Personal notions always appear impeccable when protected in the solitude of our imaginations.

Sustained Conversation
Curbs Brashness

“Solitude, silence and contemplation?”

A friend recently sent me an email sharing a few snippets from material he had been encouraged to read by a friend who was into a religious leader, whose name I won’t mention.

One of the snippets promoted “solitude, silence and contemplative prayer.” It was somehow interwoven with “loving one another” and being connected to Jesus.

I’m paraphrasing because, quite frankly, all the ideas, though very acceptable separately, came across as mumbo jumbo. It was like the alphabet soup of religious, idiomatic jargon swirling together in a suspended state. The order of the ideas could shift with no change in meaning.

My friend wrote me wanting to know my thoughts.

To be honest, I don’t get it. Besides confusing, it is all so yesteryear.

The terminology harks back to a time when solitude was fairly common, silence was required and contemplation was allowed only in prayer, the silent kind. No audibles allowed.

I don’t know why we still use these terms.

The words were popularized when religion was owned and operated by the powerful few, centuries ago. The Spirit was entirely regulated.

Whatever ideas individuals developed through personal contemplation had to be kept a secret lest they be accused of heresy.

Today we’re smarter. We understand that these words describe the very issues that deprive people of feeling alive. Jesus commented on this very thing, “You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free!”

“Free” being synonymous with “Alive!”

And He said this to the most rigidly religionized people of the day. He didn’t say anything about solitude, silence or contemplation. According to Jesus, all they needed do was “continue in His Word.”

That sounds like action to me.

Should we still be using such words? Let’s look a bit closer. [Read more…] about Solitude, Silence, Contemplation? Please!

Filed Under: God Speaks, How To, Philosophy, Religion

Love’s Language Is What?

February 18, 2016 by EnnisP 2 Comments

Love is a two step process: learn what language to speak and learn to speak it.

Love Is Spoken
In Many Different
Languages

The need for love is common to us all, but it isn’t the same for everyone.

We all need love in some way, and each person loves in his or her own way, but just getting on with it, without thought, may not be the best approach.

People who are loved don’t usually overdose on self-loathing but according to Glamour.Com, 97% of women find their bodies disgusting everyday. Either they aren’t being loved at all, which I doubt, or the love they’re getting is lost in translation.

A part of the problem may the human tendency to take the simple approach. Treat everyone the same. No thinking is required. No special effort is made. We just do for each person what we always do. And it’s usually what we’d like done in return.

If you’re a thinking person you realize that that approach is an insult to individuality. There is a difference between taking someone out for a movie and going to a movie, dragging them along with you.

It’s now common knowledge that every person’s receptors pick up love signals in different ways. We have Gary Chapman to thank for that. His book, The 5 Love Languages, makes the argument well. [Read more…] about Love’s Language Is What?

Filed Under: Family, How To, Human Relations

Love’s Focus Should Be What?

February 16, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

The Bible command to love is never unqualified.

Make Sure You Look
Where You’re Loving

Everybody loves. Not some, but all. There is no person who doesn’t love.

Every saint loves. Every sinner loves. Good citizens and criminals both love.

The question is never, “Do you love?”

The capacity to love is engaged every waking moment by every person but is sometimes focused in the wrong direction. The important lesson is that we learn to love somebody else. Somebody other than self.

There was never a time when Ebenezer Scrooge didn’t love. He loved before his transformation and he loved after. The difference was “What” he loved, his focus. The people or things he was attached to. [Read more…] about Love’s Focus Should Be What?

Filed Under: Family, How To, Philosophy

Everybody Needs Love

February 15, 2016 by EnnisP Leave a Comment

Deserve it or not, everyone needs love.

Love Produces Feelings
Even If It Isn’t One

Every person is born with an empty heart. It’s the place where the soul is. It can’t be measured with a ruler or inflated with gas. It’s more metaphysical than physical.

It’s like a non-material version of the stomach. The heart is to the stomach what the mind is to the brain.

A vacuum that longs for emotional nourishment, it constantly needs refilling.

What it needs most is love, and begins screaming for it soon after conception. Unfortunately, it has no choice other than to accept whatever is offered, love or not.

Saying it needs “Love” is a bit vague, though, so let’s explore the idea. [Read more…] about Everybody Needs Love

Filed Under: Family, Parenting, Personal Development

God Is Personal Means What

February 6, 2016 by EnnisP 2 Comments

Does the holiness of God completely trump His personal response?

God Is Fully Aware
And Personally Responsive

Every Bible-believing system I know of refers to God as Personal.

But then, after saying that, these same systems suggest things that defy the concept, like God doesn’t hear the prayers of sinners.

Begs the question. Several actually.

What do they really mean by Personal? Or better yet, what impact would Personal have on beliefs about God if taken to the logical end? The answer is profound.

Let me explain.

Whatever is done Personally is done in person, by a person, and for a person. It’s relational.

Saying God is Personal means He acts as a person and relates to people individually. He hears individual prayers. He saves individuals. He isn’t relationally challenged.

Tell me. Has God ever sent a message His Spirit didn’t personally infuse?

God’s blessing on any nation, culture, or geographical area is largely based on His relationship with the individuals. In other words, God is God to the whole group one person at a time.

Generally, everyone agrees with that, but extrapolating the idea draws fire. [Read more…] about God Is Personal Means What

Filed Under: Evangelism, God Speaks, Salvation, Theology

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